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    June 18

    Essential Insights of Living

    昨天被师兄拜托写作文,果然是很久不练手生了,一个400words的东东折腾了快一个小时,一点多才睡下。写完了给人家发过去了,觉得不爽了,没有成就感啊,于是贴上来,慰籍一下今天的黑眼圈。
    Essential Insights of Living
        It was long ago when I heard that phenomenon of suicide was not rear in campus, and at that time I just could not believe it. But, now it is proved to be a hard fact that many youngsters abandon their precious lives before tasting those best things life should offer. This arises my thought on the essential insights of living and the correct way to treat it.
        There are mainly two reasons which may make some people lose the hope or the passion of their lives and even commit suicide desperately: great sorrow of losing the ones who they love most, or incomparable depress of failure. For the first reason, those ones in the great sorrow of losing loved ones should know that those they loved are not disappear, but merge the individual beings into the universal life, and death is not the end but a begin of another way of existence. Killing one’s self is not a wise way to memorize the dead ones. The only contribution that suicide can make is to depress the living ones, and force the living ones to face a second hurt of losing. For the second reason, the only thing that those who want to murder themselves need is merely positive attitude. The best way to get the hope and passion back is to make their interests gradually wider and more impersonal, until bit by bit the walls of the ego recede, and they will know the meaning of life is not the success but the process to pursue it. Though they are not succeed as they expected, others will carry on what they haven’t finished, and thus their endeavor is not meaningless. In some way, they’ve done contribution to human-beings as whole. The man who, in failure, can see his life in this way, will not suffer from the feeling of desperate.
        To sum up, suicide is anything but the way to solve problems. As a responsible person, you have too many things to do before you have right to kill yourself: it is your duty to support your parents, to foster your children and to take good care of your spouse. Try to view the things happen around you in a positive way, and surely you will find life is the most treasure gift you’ve ever possess. Enjoy it when you still have chance.
    May 21

    Nostalgia

          Chinese is famous for their nostalgia.  They gain this special character from their culture and tradition.  Chinese, savoring tradition, are deeply tied to, or at least mentally tie to specific locations.
          Just as Dr. Philip C. Holtrop said China has a land culture.  That is quit true.  Chinese emphasis stability a lot.  They bear special feeling about certain places and keep these places private.  They always have nostalgia lingering in their minds.
          A traditional Chinese home has walls enclose it.  Stepping behind the spirit wall, one is in a courtyard with perhaps a little garden around a corner.  Once inside of a typical traditional Chinese house, one is wrapped in an air of calm beauty, an ordered world of buildings, pavement, rocks, and decorative flowerbed.  But he cannot have a distant view: nowhere does space open out before him.  The only open space is the sky above.  In Chinese belief, if every thing in a garden or courtyard can be taken at one glance, it will be uninteresting.  Chinese is rooted in his place.  Once he settles down, he won’t move for a relatively long time.  Chinese are loyal to the place they live in.  They cherish their living places, thus they want to make the place as full and complex as possible.  Chinese changes their living places only when there are some special serious reasons.
          Chinese have gained this special character from their belief of Confucian and Taoism.  Influenced by Confucian and Taoism, Chinese never had a strong, national wide religion throughout their five-thousand-year civilization.  The gods they respected were their ancestors.  They believed that their ancestors would bless and protect them as long as they enshrined and worship their ancestors and lived at their original place.
          Chinese nostalgia has its historical reasons.  As a country emphasized agriculture a lot in the past thousands of years, the Chinese tie to place is deeply felt.  From this perspective, the notion of the Chinese tie to a special place can be said to be rather antiquated. The Taoist classic Tao Te Ching captures the ideal of rootedness in place with these words: “though there may be another country in the neighborhood so close that they are within sight of each other and the crowing of cocks and barking of dogs in one place can be heard in the other, yet there is no traffic and communication between them; and throughout their lives the two peoples have nothing to do with each other.”  Farmers had ranked high in China in feudalistic society for thousands of years.  The reason is not only that they are engaged in a “root” industry of producing food but that, unlike pecuniary merchants, they are tied to the land and do not abandon their country when it is in danger.  Moreover, to reduce relationship between different groups of people is an easy way to reduce conflicts.  Of course, in modern view this way is rather negative.  All the emperors in Chinese history lay high pressure on commerce, thinking that merchants might make the society unsteady and they produce no real products to the society.  
          The literatures of ancient China also help to form the Chinese tie of homeland.  Nostalgia is a recurrent theme in Chinese poetry.  A foreign reader of translated Chinese poems may well be taken aback and even put off by the frequency of the lament for home.  An ancient Chinese poem reads thus:”  The waves flow past and yearn the bygone shores; the moving clouds long for the native land."  But this is not entirely something contrived by poets for their amusement or much ado about nothing.  From this people can discover a philosophical truth in Chinese conception.  It is only when the waves have flowed past the shores that they begin to miss and pine for them.  It is only when the clouds have moved far away from home that they miss the native land.  If the waters were stagnant, such emotions will not arise.  Another example is the poet that almost every Chinese known:” Lifting my head, I see the radiant moon; I bow my head and think of home."  There is an implication here that to Chinese native land is like the moon: that which one can see, but one cannot reach.
          Chinese love their homeland much, but that doesn’t mean Chinese never leave their home to establish their career.  Home is the softest place in the heart of every Chinese.  A Chinese may miss his home, his original place constantly, but be back his birthplace only when he is dying.  Li bai is the most famous poet in Chinese history.  He had written countless poems about the deep feeling of nostalgia.  But during his life time, though he had passed by his hometown many times, he had never been back home to see what the land he dreamed from time to time was really like.  Being like most of Chinese, he would rather leave his homeland in mind.
          Nostalgia is a powerful emotion, feel-good seductive but also potentially dangerous, and something to be particularly wary of at a conservative, self-satisfied moment in Chinese art and culture.  In the modern society, it is difficult to say where really is native land.  The Chinese feeling of nostalgia seems to ebb away a little, but most of Chinese still have this special feeling in deep of their heart.

    Place Vs. Space

    Place and Space

    The cultural differences have existed for thousands of years.  If one looks into the differences between Chinese culture and American culture and focuses on the concept of space and location, he will see those diversities more clearly.  Americans are less rooted to place and are future oriented, while Chinese, savoring tradition, are deeply tied to, or at least mentally tie to specific locations.

    Just as Dr. Philip C. Holtrop said, America has a frontier culture and China has a land culture.  “Geographical mobility has been high (oceans, land, even to the moon).”  However, Chinese always have nostalgia lingering in their minds.

    Americans have a sense of space, not of place.  Visiting an American home in exurbia, almost the first thing the guest does is drift toward the picture window.  It is hand for a Chinese to understand that the first compliment the guest is expected to pay his host inside the house is to say how lovely it is outside the house.  The host is pleased that his guest should admire his vista. The distant horizon is not merely a line separating earth from sky; it is a symbol of the future.  The American is not rooted in his place, no matter how lovely it is. His eyes are drawn by the expanding space to a point on the horizon, which means future to him.

    By contrast, a traditional Chinese home always has walls enclose it.  Stepping behind the spirit wall, one is in a courtyard with perhaps a little garden around a corner.  Once inside of a typical traditional Chinese house, one is wrapped in an air of calm beauty, an ordered world of buildings, pavement, rocks, and decorative flowerbed.  But one cannot have a distant view: nowhere does space open out before him.  The only open space is the sky above.  In Chinese belief, if every thing in a garden or courtyard can be taken at one glance, it will be uninteresting.  Chinese is rooted in his place.  Once he settles down, he won’t move for a relatively long time.  Chinese are loyal to the place they live in.  A Chinese changes his living place only when there is special serious reason.

    Chinese have gained this special character from their belief of Confucian and Taoism.  Influenced by Confucian and Taoism, Chinese never had a strong, national wide religion throughout their five-thousand-year civilization.  The gods they respected were their ancestors.  They believed that their ancestors would bless and protect them as long as they enshrined and worship their ancestors and lived at their original place.

    As a country emphasized agriculture a lot in the past thousands of years, the Chinese tie to place is deeply felt.  The Taoist classic Tao Te Ching captures the ideal of rootedness in place with these words: “though there nay be another country in the neighborhood so close that they are within sight of each other and the crowing of cocks and barking of dogs in one place can be heard in the other, yet there is no traffic and communication between them; and throughout their lives the two peoples have noting to do with each other.”  Farmers had ranked high in China in feudalistic society.  The reason is not only that they are engaged in a “root” industry of producing food but that, unlike pecuniary merchants, they are tied to the land and do not abandon their country when it is in danger.  Moreover, to reduce the relationship is an easy way to reduce conflicts.  All the emperors in Chinese history lay high pressure on commerce, thinking that merchants might make the society unsteady.

    Chinese were and are so influenced by their culture and tradition that they love their original place very much.  Nostalgia is a recurrent theme in Chinese poetry.  An American reader of translated Chinese poems may well be taken aback and even put off by the frequency of the lament for home.  But that doesn’t mean Chinese never leave their home to establish their career.  Home is the softest place in the heart of every Chinese.  A Chinese may miss his home, his original place constantly, but be back his birthplace only when he is dying.  By contrast, Americans move voluntarily, and their nostalgia for hometown is really longing for a childhood to which they cannot return but not for place they one lived in.  In the meantime, Americans believe the future beckons and the future is in open space, not in such steady place. 

    Americans have a sense of space while Chinese has a strong feeling of place.  American rootlessness is a result of ideals should be admired, namely, social mobility and optimism about future.  Chinese rootedness is a result of loyalty and allegiance.  People of different nations should be aware of the differences among them, and make understanding of each other.  Let people of different nations unit despite of their differences to build a world of harmony!